Addressing Performance Anxiety
Esther Perel discusses factors that can influence a man’s desire as well as vulnerabilities that men may face in their sexual relationship, which she calls “masculine doubts”. She stresses the importance of having open conversations with one’s partner. Additionally, she encourages men to check their mood, which may be influencing their arousal and sexual experience. Lastly, she emphasizes the importance of men grounding themselves in their bodies, to experience pleasure physically, versus ruminating about their performance.
http://www.estherperel.com/a-mans-secret-performance-anxiety/