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Busting Relationship Myths

Esther Perel wrote a great article, 7 Relationship Myths to Stop Believing. Myth #1: People in a relationship don’t flirt. If they do, it means they are unhappy and looking for something else. Myth #2: Honesty is the best policy. Myth #3: Bad sex should always be a relationship deal breaker. It means you aren’t […]

You Can Be Right or You Can Be Married (or Connected)!

  Our Start Right, Stay Connected relationship education seminar is for premarital or newly married couples, couples who are making a long term commitment and those who need a relationship boost. One of our best lines in the workshop is, “You can be married (or connected) or you can be right! It is often hard to […]

“Relationship Space” and Thanksgiving. What do they have to do with each other?

It is very important for couples and families to learn about “the relationship space.” In your relationship, there are three entities: you, your partner & your relationship. We know about the “relationship space”, when we have conflict. At that time, we can feel the tension, the negative energy, from the basement to the second floor. […]